We Brake for Estate Sales

Guide to finding great deals at estate sales

Megan, Kendal, and I went to an estate sale the other day.  We absolutely love estate sales, but they’re not all created equal.  Our favorites have antiques and lots of cool old stuff.  Megan saw online that this one had old quilts and linens, so she was sold.  To me, part of the fun of estate sales is going through the house.  I like to see the “blueprint” of a family’s home and the life they lived there.  It’s a very personal experience.  If one of their belongings call my name, I am only too happy to purchase it and give it a good home.

estate sale sign

We were like kids in a candy store, taking everything in.  But I couldn’t stop thinking about the family who lived there, probably for many years.  The house was beautiful, large, and traditional in style.  Looking at the family’s belongings, it was obvious that they liked to cook, entertain, and read.  They had a few different sets of china.  There was a Royal Dalton service for 12 that took my breath away.  Before I was married, I would have thought I needed to have it.  Now I’m more of a paper plate girl. There were several tables of silver, beautiful but needing polished.  The house was full of furniture (our favorite thing to buy if it’s antique), pictures, dishes, pewter, games, holiday decorations, and a whole lot more.  There were women’s clothes and some fur stoles (gasp!  how glamorous!).  Looking at the woman’s clothes, she must have been petite and well-dressed.  This may sound crazy, but I wish I had known her.

Megan and I love books and particularly have a fetish for really old books.  Not to read, but to decorate with them.  We each bought several.  I found a cute collection of Jane Austen novels and a volume of Tennyson’s poems.  I also bought the 1952 edition of My Cousin Rachel by Daphne Du Maurier.  It’s not that it’s famous, but there’s a movie out based on this book and I’ve been wanting to see it.  So I started reading the book, but the musty smell just about knocks my socks off!  Kendal bought doll house furniture and an antique enamel-topped table that Megan pointed out to her.  On the way home, Megan was not so sure she should have pointed it out to her dear sister….maybe she should have bought it herself.  But every time Megan and I bring home another piece of antique furniture, our husbands cringe.  We’re running out of space.  Oh, well.

antique bed from estate sale
Fynn’s antique bed was a great deal ($30) at an estate sale!

Upstairs in the hall, there were four painted portraits of children.  I’m assuming they were the children who grew up in the house because the portraits were signed and dated 1969.  The children in the portraits were beautiful, two girls and two boys.  They were priced at $70.00 each.  I felt sad and outraged at the same time.  Why on earth hadn’t the children, now grown up, taken the portrait of themselves?  Someone in the family had to have wanted them.  At least, I know I would have.  What a treasure to have a painted portrait of a mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, etc.  I had the absurd thought to take them and give them a good home, if only to save them from the dump.  I did have a picture of a stranger hung in my home for awhile because I loved the frame.  It was of a mustached man, probably over a hundred years ago.  I got the creeps every time I looked at “him” so I kept only the frame and put our family picture in it.  I hope that mustached man doesn’t come back and haunt me for putting his picture in the garbage.

antique book from estate sale
The antique book “The Heroic Life of George Washington” (copyright 1902) displayed on this bench is an estate sale find. I think I paid $3!

There were two immigrant trunks that fascinated us.  They were beautiful and one was Scandinavian in origin.  If only we had more room for such treasures.  I know that the Bible says to store up treasure for yourself in heaven, not on earth.  But God?  Can I please just take my antique bench with me to heaven?  I just love it, and my kids won’t want it.  I’ve already told my kids that I will come back and haunt them if they get rid of all my favorite things.

Do you ever go to estate sales?  What kinds of things do you look for?  If you haven’t been, you are missing out!  We have made some of our best purchases at estate sales.  Here are a few tips if you are a newbie:

1. Look online for sales in your area.  You can usually tell if there is anything you might be interested in by the description and items listed of a particular sale.

2.  Go with someone…it’s just safer if you aren’t familiar with the neighborhood, and you might need help carrying large items out, since you are expected to remove anything you buy yourself.

3.  Have a little idea of what you are looking for, but keep an open mind!

4.  Arrive early for the best selection, but don’t hesitate to go on later or even on the second or third day.  The prices are usually reduced by a third or half on those days.

5.  If you see something you are seriously interested in, grab it or it will probably be gone!

6.  If the sale had an awesome selection, definitely plan on going back the second or third day for even better deals, although I usually find the prices pretty reasonable the first day of the sale.

For a more detailed list, read this guide from The Weathered Door for some great tips.  We hope you are inspired to find your next great bargain at an estate sale!  Good luck and happy hunting!

Mardi

Keeping the Peace

Keeping the Peace

Did you know that Mardi and I, our parents, our sister Kendal, two different aunts & uncles, and a cousin all live on the same road?  Isn’t that awesome??  Well, if you ask some people, it might sound like their worst nightmare.  But we just feel incredibly blessed.  Our kids have grown up together and probably don’t have too many memories that don’t involve each other.  Mardi and I are so thankful for that, especially since we adored our cousins growing up and still feel a special bond with all of them.  Our kids are so lucky to live next door to one another and also right by grandpa and grandma’s house, where they frequently meet up.  And our parents’ home is the place to be…a beach equipped with all kinds of toys, a big yard to host neighborhood football and baseball games, a pantry that always has treats…pretty much every kids’ dream.

extended family easter photo
The whole family at Easter brunch…freezing, but smiling!

Living next door to family has lots of advantages for me, too.  I love knowing my kids can see their grandma and grandpa every day.  I love sharing meals together a couple times a week, especially in the summer out on the deck.  If I have to run an errand, the kids can run down to grandma’s.  If I need a roll of toilet paper, I can steal one from mom.  If Mardi makes cookies at 9:30 at night and invites me over to try one out, I’m eating one still hot from the oven within minutes.  If Aunt Kendal calls and asks the kids to spend the night last minute, we get an unexpected quiet night at home.  The perks are endless!

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Mardi and I and our girls at Mount Rushmore minutes before it became a torrential downpour…happy at the moment!

Is it for everyone?  Probably not.  There are the occasional downsides, like grandparents having to discipline instead of spoil.  Listening to your son and nephew argue over the latest call made in their game.  Getting on each other’s nerves because you are with each other all the time.  Knowing pretty much everyone’s business.  Having your mom call and ask where you were when you are 39 years old, or tell you that your garage door is still open even though I was well aware.  Getting a call from your aunt because she thought she saw flames in the window when you had lit a candle.  Having your dad hear you yelling at your kids from 100 yards away

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Here is the whole family (minus me) at Yellowstone National Park. After traveling by RV for two days in close confines, it is amazing anyone is still smiling!
Family vacation
This is what we all feel like doing to each other sometimes! David looks like he’s about ready to choke Kimball! Trust me…I’ve been there.

So what are the keys to maintaining peace and harmony in a family that spends so much time together?  Well, I’m certainly not perfect and have caused my fair share of conflict, I’m sure, but personally I have a few guidelines that I TRY to abide by to keep the peace.  They are as follows:

*Pray!  This is obviously the most important one.  Pray that God will help you see things from his perspective, not yours.  Pray that God will bless your family with peace.

Don’t quarrel with anyone.  Be at peace with everyone, just as much as possible.  Romans 12:19

*Keep your mouth shut!  Ahhh…this is the one I struggle with the most!  Sometimes it is so hard not to comment on something that is none of my business (especially since we all know each other’s business so well).  If you think they might not appreciate whatever you are going to say…then don’t say it, unless they specifically ask for your opinion.

Set a guard, O Lord, over my mouth; keep watch over the door of my lips! Psalm 141:3

*Wait!  If you must say something, wait a day or two.  It is amazing how many times I have been annoyed about something and wanted to address it, only to wait a day and realize how petty and foolish I was to get worked up over something so silly.  Just waiting a day has saved me from saying lots of things I would have regretted!

Be not rash with your mouth, nor let your heart be hasty to utter a word before God, for God is in heaven and you are on earth.  Therefore let your words be few.

*Reflect!  If you are still angry after giving yourself a cooling off period, reflect on your behavior.  Now is a great time to pray that God would grant you humility and help you to see your own faults and shortcomings.  In my experience, recognizing my own sin can so often knock the self-righteous anger right out of me.

God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.  James 4:6

For by the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think with sober judgment, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned.  Romans 12:3

Before destruction a man’s heart is haughty, but humility comes before honor.  Proverbs 18:12

Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye.?  Matthew 7:3

*Apologize!  Now this one I have gotten pretty good at!  It’s a direct result of not being good at all of the previous points!  I pray that I will never be too proud to admit when I am wrong or have done wrong.  I apologize to my kids all. the. time.  I have to apologize to my sisters and parents, occasionally too.  It is never pleasant, but boy, does it restore peace to your soul and to your relationships faster than anything.  And I value that peace for myself and my family above any temporary conflict or annoyance.

Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed.  James 5:16

And don’t forget, no family or person is perfect.  We still have a sinful nature and live in a sin-filled world.  Life here on earth is not supposed to be like Heaven, or we wouldn’t need God.  And we do need Him, especially if we want to be good neighbors (or family members or co-workers or parents)!

Do you have a strategy for keeping the peace in your relationships?  Tell us about it…we have plenty of opportunities around here to try new ones out!  But trust me, I wouldn’t have it any other way!

Megan

 

Meet the Minis!

If you follow our Instagram, you already know that we have added two new members to our horse family.  In a former post, I alluded to the detour we took on our way up north to look at miniature horses.   See that post here.  Megan’s infamous statement to her girls, “just because we’re looking, doesn’t mean we’re going to get one…,” proved to be right.  Instead we got two, a mama and her baby.  Our original thinking was that if we got another horse, Nina would not be alone if Megan and I rode our horses.  Nina, our 19 year old Arabian (Marek’s first horse), runs, paces, neighs, and panics when her boys aren’t with her.  So we thought, let’s get her a companion.  We don’t really need another horse to ride, so let’s get a mini…..they’re smaller and eat less.  Besides, they’re cute.  B-u-t, it turns out that going to just “look” at a miniature horse farm is the kiss of death.  Martha, the sweet owner of the farm, took us to look at the babies first (smart move).  They were all about 3 months old, all legs and looking like Bambi.  Their hair was frizzy and their short manes stuck straight up like mohawks.  They were adorable!  One in particular caught our eye because he came up to us, wanting attention.  The others were a bit skittish.  The affectionate one even followed us to the gate and stuck his head out as if to say, “hey, where are you going?”  Yep, you guessed it, we were smitten.

We then looked at adult minis.  Our main requirement (IF we got one, of course) was a good temperament.  We’d had a bad experience with a Hackney/Welsh cross named Dougal and Kendal and Fynnlay bear the scars to prove it.  He didn’t last long at our barn.  Then we had a Palomino named Flossie who loved Angus and Colin, but was stubborn as a mule.  She was young and basically more work than Megan and I could handle.  So our next grand scheme was a mini companion for Nina.  There were several adult minis to choose from in a variety of colors, all with good temperaments.  Decision time.  Megan and I asked Milla and Fynn which horse they liked.  The affectionate baby was the consensus, but he wouldn’t be able to be ridden for a few years.  Only Fynnlay would probably ride him anyway, because we have Nina.  But how fun to ride a mini horse!  We also had dreams of getting a cart and driving them.  So we again leaned to an adult……but that baby was so cute!  As it turned out, the baby’s mother was for sale too.  She was a sweetheart also.  We left excited, dazed, and confused, visions of miniature horses dancing in our heads.

For the following few days, we talked it over.  Milla kept saying we should get both the mama and the baby.  I agreed, but did not hesitate to throw her under the bus, telling our Dad that Milla thinks we should get both.  After a few phone calls back and forth with Martha, we set the day for mama (a.k.a. Golden Promise) and baby to arrive.  We decided to call Golden Promise “Goldie” and the baby Ryerson, or Rye.  You’d have thought we were naming a human baby.  We had baby name lists and went through the process of elimination before we got to Rye.  At their arrival to our barn, they seemed pretty relaxed.  Colin, Angus, and Nina were curious and ran around the paddock in excitement.  We have the minis in a separate area for now and may try to put them with the other horses later.  They checked each other out over the gate, it was so cute.

Friesians meeting our miniature foalfriesian horse meeting miniature foal

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All has gone well so far, except for the fact that Megan and I can’t seem to get anything else done, we’re at the barn so much.  They’re just so fun to watch.  We’ve learned that Goldie is like a Hoover vacuum, so our theory that minis eat less has been blown out of the water.  Rye likes to play and jump on people, acting like a dog.  But his hooves hurt, and it’s bad manners.  We have a lot to teach him, but we’ll have fun doing it.  The adventure continues, so stay tuned. Forgive us for posting so many pictures, we’re proud horse parents!

Mardi

What do you think of the baby’s new name?  Yay or Neigh?

 

Mitten Road Trip: Northern (Lower) Michigan Travel Guide

 


 

michigan road trip in the traverse city area

Hi friends!  Do you feel like summer flies by after the 4th?  I know I do.  I start to panic a little thinking about how it’s almost halfway over.  But I guess it makes me conscious of all the activities I want to make time for yet, too, like little road trips!  If you have a road trip on your summer bucket list, you really should consider northern Michigan’s lakeshore.  I don’t think you can beat it, although I admit being a Michigander I am a little biased.  Although, this area was voted one of America’s Most Beautiful Places by Good Morning America in 2011.  So here’s a little Two Liberty Belles’ mini up-north travel guide of a few of our favorite places near the Traverse City area of Michigan:

Crystal Mountain Resort is in Thompsonville (about a 35 minute drive south of Traverse City), which is where our parents own a vacation home.  This is a wonderful resort summer and winter, with skiing, golfing, and all kinds of activities.   In the summer, we enjoy the outdoor waterpark pool, the alpine slide, and they have a high ropes obstacle course too.   We will do another post on Crystal in the near future to give you even more details.

Crystal Mountain Resort pool, Thompsonville MI

Crystal Mountain Resort Alpine Slide, Thompsonville, MI

Just north of Crystal Mountain is a little town called Beulah.  It is located on gorgeous Crystal Lake, which has a cute public beach.  It is such a tiny little town, but it has a few nice antique stores and shops.  This is also home of the Cherry Hut, as mentioned in the previous post.  If you like homestyle cooking in a friendly, old-fashioned atmosphere, this is definitely a nice place to eat.

Cherry Hut Restaurant, Beulah, MICherry Hut Restaurant, Beulah, MI

Further down the road (US 31), almost to Honor is the Cherry Bowl Drive-in, also mentioned earlier.  It is so much fun!  It only shows family friendly movies, plays the National Anthem before the show, and is full of old-fashioned nostalgia.  They have the cutest snack stand that serves pizza, hot dogs, candy, and popcorn of course.  And if your car battery goes dead, like mine always does, a friendly employee gets it going with a quick jump.

Cherry Bowl Drive-in Theater, Honor, MI

Frankfort and Empire are two other little northern towns we love to stop at along Michigan’s famous M22.  They are both on Lake Michigan, have beautiful beaches, and cute little small town charm.  Definitely worth checking out!  Our kids love the beach at Frankfort.  They walk down the shore and find all kinds of neat trees and little streams.

Lake Michigan, Frankfort Lake Michigan, Frankfort

Empire also has an awesome beach, with a nice little playground.  On one side of the parking lot is Lake Michigan…on the other side is a calm inland lake with a dock and public beach.  The Sleeping Bear Dunes visitor center is also located in Empire.  This is nice to stop at and buy park passes if you plan to enjoy the Sleeping Bear Dunes National Lakeshore, which we definitely recommend!  You can pick up trail maps and guides, and see a variety of displays on the ecosystem in the dunes.

Sleeping Bear Dunes National Lakeshore, Empire MI

Sleeping Bear Dunes National Lakeshore, Empire MI

 

Probably our favorite stop is Glen Arbor, though.  It is located on Glen Lake and Lake Michigan, also on M22, north of Empire.  The water is as pretty, clear, and blue as any tropical beach.  The Cherry Republic is a must stop, especially so you can try out their Olympic Size Cherry Pit Spitting Arena, which all of the kids love.  Okay, I kinda like it too if I’m being honest.   It also has a tasting room for different cherry products, and a nice little restaurant.  The boomchukka cookies are my favorite, but they do have a full menu if cookies aren’t your idea of a meal.  And with a slogan like “Life, Liberty, Beaches, Pie”, these two Liberty Belles think it’s a match made in heaven.  Beaches and Pie definitely fit under the “pursuit of happiness” category in my book!

Cherry Republic, Glen Arbor, Michigan Cherry Republic pit spitting arena, glen arbor, michigan

After Glen Arbor, you can continue north on M22 to Leland, which is a quaint fishing village known for its smoked fish.  Here you can catch a ferry to the Manitou Islands.  Or you can cut across heading east towards Traverse City.

Traverse City is the “big” city nearby, and full of fun on its own.  Gorgeous public beaches, lots of nice shopping, and beachfront hotels make up this beautiful little city.  Our favorite restaurant/destination is the Jolly Pumpkin, on the Peninsula.  It has great food and a fun atmosphere, and it is at the end of a lovely drive filled with cherry orchards, beautiful homes, and beach views.

So here you have all of these fun little northern beach towns all within a fairly short distance of one another.  You can easily see a few of them in a day.  The next time you want to take a little road trip in Northern Lower Michigan, you should definitely plan on a few of these little towns!  You won’t be disappointed!  We love them so much, we go back year after year!

What are your favorite places to visit in Michigan?  We would love to know so we can check it out for ourselves!

Megan

Cherries! Cherries! Cherries!

As you probably know, we had an amazing Independence Day.  The weather was beautiful, the company great, and the food, plentiful and delicious.  The fireworks display outdid all previous years, which was no easy feat.  The only snafu on that gorgeous day was Manon’s fall off the tube.  While boating, her sweet brother Sander flipped the tube and her leg got caught underneath her.  It was not serious, but she sprained her knee (or meniscus?), as we found out the next day.  On the 5th, Manon and Kimball were to go home with our Aunt Lynn and Uncle Tom.  They live in Brimley, in the Upper Peninsula.  For those of you not from Michigan, that’s the part above the mitten.  Thankfully, after a visit to the doctor and borrowing crutches, Manon and Kimball left on their six hour journey.

Our whole family goes up north after the 4th.  In Michigan, ‘up north’ is anywhere north of where you live, I think.  On Wednesday afternoon, Megan, her girls, and I left for our parents’ house at Crystal Mountain.  B-u-t, we took a three hour detour east to look at miniature horses in Millington.  As Megan told her girls as we pulled into the driveway of the farm, “just because we’re looking, doesn’t mean we’re going to get one.”  Famous last words.  Not only are we getting one, we’re getting two.  A mama and her baby.  But I’m getting ahead of myself…..that’s another blog post.

Crystal Mountain is a ski resort in Thompsonville, about 30 minutes from Traverse City.  In the winter, we go there every other weekend.  Only once or twice do we visit in the summer, so we wanted to pack in some northern Michigan fun.  One of our favorite places to eat is The Cherry Hut in Beulah.  It’s been in business for 95 years and is famous nationwide for, you guessed it, cherry pie.  We ate there twice, it was so good.  We went to a neat store called, “The Miser’s Hoard,” where Megan made a small purchase.  Then it was on to Glen Arbor, which is so beautiful and quaint.  We love the little stores there and always go to a restaurant called “The Cherry Republic.”  Needing a snack, we each got one of their amazing dark chocolate cherry boomchukka cookies.  Trust me, if you go there, you have to get one!  I bought their Confiscated Cherry mix to “share” but sadly, ate it in three sittings by myself.  Yes, it’s that good.

On Saturday, Megan and I met our Aunt Lynn and Uncle Tom in Traverse City to pick up Manon and Kimball.  They went to Sault Ste. Marie to see the Locks, made cookies and ice cream, went to the lighthouse, and played several rousing games of ‘back-up.’  I’ve never heard of ‘ back-up’ before, but the kids can’t wait to show us.  Yay…Megan and I love games – NOT.  It’s a well-known fact in our family that Kendal is the game-player and is always playing them with our kids.  We aren’t fun-haters, we just don’t like games, puzzles, bowling, and all kinds of things Kendal likes to do with them.  Ok, maybe we are fun-haters?  Anyway, Manon and Kimball were so excited and wound up on the way back to Crystal that we almost drove them back to Brimley.  Oh, and guess what else they did?  They went cherry picking before we picked them up!  And lucky for us, Uncle Tom and Aunt Lynn let us have their pickings!

We couldn’t wait to go to the Cherry Bowl Drive-in because we hadn’t been there in a few years.  It was voted #1 drive-in in Michigan.  We saw “Despicable Me 3” there on our last night.  The Cherry Bowl is like a time warp.  It reminds us of the show “Happy Days” if you’re 80’s chicks like Megan and I (ok, we’re 70’s chicks, but we remember the 80’s better than the 70’s).  It’s a nod to the Fabulous Fifties.  Our Dad says it’s just like he remembered the drive-in as a kid.  The last time Megan was there with her family, it stormed, she got hit in the head with a hockey stick, and their battery died.  It’s always a great time.  The girls were in Megan’s car and the boys sat outside in chairs.  We can’t ever get pictures of the boys anymore because they say, “Mom!  You can’t put this on Instagram!”  Megan insists it’s ok, none of their friends are following her on Instagram.  No matter.  Well, we had fun and the movie was great.  But Megan’s battery died again and an employee had to give us a jump.  Luckily he said it was a common occurrence, and it only took a second!

 

Needless to say, it was a fun week filled with lots of time on the road, exploring some of our favorite Michigan towns.  We made it back home Sunday, and now we are enjoying our own little slice of paradise on our parents’ beach.   Be on the lookout for the next post for a little more detail on some of our favorite northern Michigan destinations!

Mardi

 

Grover Road Garden Tour Part 2

Hey, you came back!  I was worried I may have bored you to death on the last post.  I mean, you could probably care less what our yards look like.  I totally get it.  But, if you struggle with what to put in pots, or how to avoid hard water, or the shape of that new flower bed, then hopefully you aren’t totally falling asleep yet with this tour.  Since you are still here (and I really, really, really appreciate that!), I might as well take you down my extremely steep driveway to my parents’ house.  See, I was really thinking when we picked the spot on the hill behind my mom and dad’s home to build.  Gravity just naturally draws my children down to Grandma and Grandpa’s!  It’s amazing and wonderful!  Right mom?  Too bad the driveway is a neat adventure in the winter.  Oh well, the kids have an awesome sledding hill.  Right down to Grandma’s.

As I have mentioned before, my mom is an awesome gardener/lawn-mower/weed-wacker.  She even waters her plants!  All 452 of them (or something like that).  And as I have also mentioned before, I pray she never gets hurt so that I don’t have to help her water them.  So enough talking…let me show you her yard.

Can you say lots of grass?  Uh…let’s just say that my Kimball and Mardi’s Sander like to think of it as a driving range/baseball diamond.  Not such a popular idea with Grandma.  She has a nice variety of hostas by her entrance and it is surprising how they really add color and texture when mixed all together.  She also plants a lot of Dragon Wing begonias because they stay colorful all summer, you don’t had to deadhead them, and they like shade and sun.  She uses them in pots and right in her flower beds.

Moving to the front yard, she has pots lining her front porch.  They contain more Dragon Wing begonias, creeping jenny, lobelia, and spikes.  Probably some other things that I don’t know the names of too, but pretend like you didn’t just read that.

Here you can catch a glimpse of my mom.  And guess what she is doing?  Yes!  Watering her flowers!  Now you see where I got the great idea to plant tropical plants in pots this year.  Although I got lucky and found mine on clearance for $5.

 

Thanks for sticking it out…it’s a pretty big yard, and now I’m tired…and I didn’t even water any of I!   I hope you enjoyed the tour, and maybe grabbed a few ideas, too.  Now, I’m going to join the kids and crash at Grandma & Grandpa’s beach for some relaxin’!  Don’t forget to come back and check out part three of the Grover Road Garden Tour.  Kendal has Rob’s yard looking straight out of Better Homes and Gardens, and I can’t wait to show it off to you!

Megan